They can become very demanding with partners or anyone they have an emotional bond with. They consider love something absolute and unconditional. But not even a mother can give you that.
People who crave love are demanding but also tend to let too many things slide. To them, anything is better than losing the person they love. Consequently, they often ignore their own needs and well-being. These people also make love out to be much more dramatic and painful than it needs to be. But these people take it to the extreme.
Their mistrust is so intense that they can even start seeing good things as bad or vice versa. You dont have to have sex all the time, you dont need to stick to each other like glue to prove the love is there — he cares about you a lot and even you know that. His commitment is right in front of you but you need to see it, acknowledge and stop overthinking after a point.
I dont have any great advice except to say that get more involved with your life outside of the work that you do at home — some distance in a relationship is healthy, isnt it? Take a class, join a gym, volunteer, make new friends. Have your own life too — inner or outer whichever you like. I am not gonna ask you to play games — just gonna say find balance in your own way. Hi, I hope you read this post Claref. When I read this post I felt like you are talking about me.
I feel your every word. I realized this craving is due to the low production of hormone Oxytocin. Getting massage will help. But eating some high energy foods, like sesame seeds works great. Getting enough sunlight in the morning and evening is the other best solution.
Please concentrate on correcting this hormone. When you correct all hormones in your body, you will feel balanced in body, mind and soul. Life will flow beautifully. You can try Yoga. Also, when all your hormones are balanced, you need not to put efforts like staying away for one day, one week etc. You know I suffer from every emotional and physical ailment you mentioned. I discovered this secret of correcting hormones corrects all your body ailments, right emotions and thought gets produced from heart and mind energy centers.
Sesame and Chickpeas have the ability to correct PCOD, but they also produce high heat so drink lots of water, if required barley water. Then as usual carbs, fat, spices and protein in meals. Get enough sunlight. I feel it constantly, ironically. So much is normally communicated in those moments.
I find that I am questioning myself so much more — I have no confidence in my decisions. This touch-hungry nerve fibre responds specifically to gentle stroking and, unlike its counterpart, does not send this information to the brain straight away — it takes several seconds to arrive.
Increased vagal activity calms the nervous system eg slows heart rate and leads to EEG patterns that accompany relaxation. It also reduces cortisol — the culprit stress hormone — that then saves natural killer cells that kill viral, bacterial and cancer cells. After 20 years of in-depth research, experts know almost everything there is to know about the C-tactile afferent. For example, it has an optimum speed at which it likes to be touched cm per second and an optimal temperature the same as body temperature, meaning skin on skin works best.
They believe that by controlling the other person, they can keep the relationship going and avoid betrayal and abandonment. This is usually caused by emotional wounds and unhealthy attachment styles in childhood.
Ironically, such behavior often leads to the end of a relationship. Difficult personalities can often be demanding, reactive, and have trouble controlling their emotions. These types of people constantly demand affection and attention as they have difficulty in accepting healthy attachment styles or genuine love. They expect love to be perfect and unconditional, which is not realistic.
Hence, they are more prone to heartbreaks and disappointments. Emotional hunger can not only make people controlling and demanding, it can also make them desperate as well. They cannot bear the pain of losing a loved one as they are incapable of coping with abandonment, rejection, or breakups. They can often beg for love as it is easier for them than dealing with the pain of ending a relationship. They can bend over backward and ignore their own needs to please their partner and keep the relationship going despite how badly the other person may treat them.
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